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John Shuttleworth.
or Tatiana Shuttleworth

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2027 Weekend Residential in Wales.

Shame, Eros, and the Authority of the Heart

Dates:

Friday 12th -Monday 15th March 2027

Arrive Friday afternoon in time for 5.00 pm group meeting. Depart Monday morning.

Facilitators: John and Tatiana Shuttleworth. with Ruth Tudor.

To find out more about John and Tatiana, go to About the trainers

To read more about Ruth go to:

https://thepracticeofthewild.com/who/

Venue:

Trealy Farm (near Ross on Wye, Wales), The practice of the wild.

Trealy Farm is a wonderful venue in a beautiful setting. Here we can immerse ourselves in a space where there is no judgement and everything belongs. There will be time to explore the woodland and spaces the farm offers, including the natural swimming pool and sauna.

At this time many of us are experiencing the effects of profound disconnection, in ourselves and in relationship to each other and the planet, manifesting in the climate crisis, and in individual suffering.

In Western culture, guilt and shame shape our morality and with it our relationships to each other and the earth. Shame is a powerful emotion, felt in both body and mind. It contracts us, creating an invisible barrier between ourselves and the world around us. When shame is used to control behaviour, it cuts us off from Eros, the life force, and from love, and this disconnection shows up in destructive ways. Without the guidance of the heart we become mind driven, searching for rules or some outside authority to guide our behaviour.

On Saturday, drawing on family constellations work, we create a ritual space free of duality, and judgement, where nothing is split into good or bad, and everything belongs.

In this space Eros, the life force, can move through each of us, dissolving guilt and shame, making room for the flow of love. This opens us to our own internal authority found in the heart.

On Sunday morning we will have the benefit of having the unique opportunity of working with the horses on the farm, who are able to deeply sense and pay attention to what might be going on way beyond what we think we know, in exciting and powerful ways.

Later on Sunday there will be time to go out into nature and connect to the depth of the welsh countryside. Followed by a group meeting to integrate and close the weekend.

Ruth Tudor is the host at Trealy Farm. She is an experienced facilitator and runs a variety of trainings in her own right As well as offering others the opportunity to run courses and retreats at Trealy Farm. Each morning there will be a meditation with one or more of the horses in the arena, and on Sunday morning Ruth will facilitate each of us to connect with a horse of our choice. This non verbal connection can be profound and deeply moving. The sessions with the horses are optional.

The workshop will be limited to 16 participants, places will be allocated on a first come first serve basis. There are several options for accommodation depending on preference and budget.

We hope that the weekend proves to be nourishing, fulfilling, relaxing and fun. We will also explore ways to keep our hearts open and the flame of love alive when you return home.

Trealy Farm. The practice of the wild.

There is a natural swimming pool, a wood-fired sauna, and an infrared sauna.

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To read more about Trealy Farm go to: https://thepracticeofthewild.com/the-space-2

Horses

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To read more about the horses go to

https://thepracticeofthewild.com/therapy/horses/

The pool.

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Wood Fired Sauna.

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Accommodation

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There are several options of accommodation which are booked directly with Trealy farm. These include camping, campervan, log cabins, Pods, and in the main farmhouse. To read more about the accommodation go to.

https://thepracticeofthewild.com/the-space-2/accommodation/< /p>

Costs:

The costs are in 2 parts:  £370 for the retreat and venue cost payable to the facilitators, and accommodation and food costs which vary depending on the type of accommodation. Accommodation and food has to be booked and paid for directly with the venue owner, Ruth Tudor.

Accommodation prices range from £40 pp per night to £95 pp per night.

Own campers or tents £15 per night minimum.  All accommodation is first come first served and must be booked by 30 days in advance of arrival date. Payment within 3 days of invoice.

To see more about the options and costs go to:

Trealy-Farm-Accommodation -2027-Group-Prices.

Food

Ruth writes "Food is an important part of what we offer. We grow vegetables here and have a neighbour with his own farm shop. Both our farms are organic. We also organise a chef, to cook for you using high quality, organic and sustainable produce. We have two indoor dining areas and one outdoor dining area." There will be dinner on arrival on Friday and breakfast before leaving on Monday.

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Meals consisting of self-service breakfast and catered lunch and evening meal are at a cost of £36 per person per day in addition to the cost of the accommodation.  The food is excellent and prepared on site by local chefs. For Friday dinner to Monday breakfast all food plus teas and coffee and cake! cost is £ 96.50 total per person. Please pay this directly to Ruth.

If you want wine or beer etc. please make sure to bring your own supply.

To secure your place.

We ask for £100 non-refundable deposit at the time of booking, the remaining £270 is payable 30 days before the start of the course. Any refund of the £270 will be at the discretion of the facilitators and dependent on our being able to fill the place with another participant. It will also be your responsibility to contact Ruth and book your accommodation and food with her.

Please pay your deposit of £100.00 to our time2relate Ltd account. Please phone or email us for the account details. See "contact" in the sidebar.

Places will be allocated on a first come first serve basis.

If this is something you'd like to do, do let us know as soon as possible, as we are proceeding on a first come first served basis and places are limited. If you haven't worked with us before please phone Tatiana on 0771 464 8877 so we can discuss together whether this workshop would meet your needs.

Please feel free to phone or email us if you want more information at time2relate@hotmail.com.

To read more about the facilitators go to About the trainers and to find out more about our way of thinking about relationships - please visit the other pages of our website.